Isn’t Sagittarius season supposed to be an easy time? Welp, not so fast for me! This is a blog about my experiences and lessons with dealing with a narcissistic mother.

I want to start by pointing out the wonderful alignment in the natal chart. With the sun, venus and mercury all in Sagittarius. And for a few days, it was trine Neptune and Jupiter Jupiter conjunct in Pisces. On one hand, it was a beautiful time for me because I got engaged! Super happy and excited for what the future holds. Even though in America’s transiting chart we’re headed for nuclear war, civil war, a housing crash, and the largest wealth transfer we have ever seen. And it’s one that will go down in history. And in 2025 we will see another epidemic that will impact the respiratory system.

Nevertheless, my fiance and I are living la vita loca 😂

Sagittarius is the sign of optimism, abundance, luck, culture, travel, education, and love.

But my narcissistic mother has chosen violence. So, my brother has a new born baby with his Nephew’s half siblings, baby momma. Yep, you read that right! While my brother is schizophrenic, his baby momma is addicted to drugs. She also has previous children in which she has lost all parental rights to.

Just like my mother whom has lost all parental rights to her own children, due to drug addiction.

So my brother had a mental breakdown. He was saying that there were people under his bed with weapons, in his closets with weapons, and was cutting open the livingroom chair, saying that the enemy was hiding in the chair. No one was there. Meanwhile, baby momma left her baby daddy with the newborn while he was in crisis. And told no one. She clearly doesn’t care about her baby or the father. My thoughts is that she’s around for a place to live.

Neither of them are fit to take care of a baby. Seeing that the child was born with drugs in it’s system, and mental instabilities in it’s DNA, I certainly wasn’t going to take on that responsibility. I know from being in healthcare, that this combination is rough. Mentally and emotionally. So, I made it known that I was not going to get involved. Period. To top it off, I’ve had enough traumatic experiences in my life.

So, my narc mother has this baby because my brother is in the asylum. And for whatever reason my mother has, she not only wants full custody of this baby at her age of 76. But, she also wants to crush her own son and his baby mother. I think she is jealous of the girl, of her youth. And, she also knows the girl doesn’t have her son’s best interest at heart. But hell, neither does she! Instead of her helping, she has figured out how to hurt the two of them, and push them into a position to fail, just so she can be awarded full and sole custody of the baby. With the excuse of “Y’all didn’t do what child protective services told y’all to do”.

Meanwhile, my mother is behind the scenes, telling the CPS worker exactly what to do and not allow those two, to do. Again, pushing the biological parents into failure instead of helping them get the help they need to succeed. Iblis! Just downright evil!

Now this all started because ole girl told her baby daddy, she doesn’t like it when his mother pops up at THEIR HOUSE. And rightfully so because it’s their house… So my mother decided to exude her masculine alpha female energy to show the baby momma that she is the one that’s in control. Fuck respecting other people’s boundaries. And ever since then, it’s war. !

A 76yr old lady IS exuding her dominance over a 25yr old woman. To crush her, just because she can. So I decided to watch my mother. Because I’m on the outside looking in at the very things my mother did to me in my twenties. I get to see why. To see how she thinks, and how she’ll accomplish not only crushing a 25yr old, but crushing her own son. Like killing two birds with one stone. And the reason why she wants to crush her own son is because he agreed with the mother of his baby. Again, fuck other people’s boundaries! Zero regards for how her son feels. Nor will she ever protect his heart

I’ve always known my mother uses her kids as a shield, when most parents protect their kids. My mother only cares about how she feels. And if she’s hurt, others have to hurt too. Her own kids included.

So, my mother’s plan is one to be done over time. No matter how long it takes. Her plan is for them to lose custody of their baby, and break up their relationship which will cause the girl to be homeless. Meanwhile, CPS will take the heat for all of it. It’ll be done in a way that says, “You did it to yourself”.

She figured out their capacity of thinking and WILL outsmart them. She WILL use their weaknesses against them. She WILL make them believe that she is in full control, gaslighting them every step of the way. She WILL completely take advantage of their blind spots. Just to break them, and then laugh at their pain. She will wait for life to present an open opportunity so she can pounce all over it to get further in executing her plan, their demise. My mother is evil. She should expect to be in a nursing home with no visits. Left for dead. She earned it.

So, I’m going to end this long blog with a bang. Though I’ve been in a season of blessings and favor, I realized that I not only don’t trust my mother. I also don’t like her. And I decided she’s not allowed into my new home nor can she attend my wedding. As far as my brother goes, I will continue to stay out of it because I know people with his mental health condition, is dangerous.

So, my mother felt that the baby is not part of her family. (The audacity since she destroys her own kids and everyone else in her way). She then buys a at home DNA test kit. Results come back that there is a zero probability that she’s the grandmother. Which means, my brother is NOT the daddy!

I learned from baby boomers that their kids, are their karma.

xoxo

A Healthy Parent