This year, 2022, has been one wild ride for me!

First, a big thank you to all whom have subscribed to my blog and did not judge my truth!

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2022 started off with a lot of emotional turbulence. Alot of flashbacks. Alot of resentment. And alot of healing with a therapist. (And astrology 😉)

I learned alot about grounding myself for emotional stability, which was helpful due to all of my anxieties from PTSD.

I have learned alot about dating in 2022… but more importantly, I found my feminine power! That was something that some men and women older than me never wanted me to know.

I saw how astrology wasn’t just some fu fu stuff you find in the Sunday newspapers. And I understand why it has been suppressed and demonized.

I learned that people change their points of view and forget to tell others.

With kids, a parent will never get it right. Because it’s damned if you do and damned if you don’t.

When it comes to competition, it’s rooted in inadequacies. It’s amongst partners, friends, family, coworkers, the opposite gender, and neighbors alike. Even the elderly will waste their last days with the emotion of jealousy.

No matter what industry it is, the O.G’s will eat their young.

Peace is worth more than money. And some money is blood money.

I learned that there’s no difference between the spiritual community, and the church. You’re treated the same way, and the people are the same.

Discernment is the best thing to cultivate. Because it helps with seeing people for who they really are, what they really want, and making good decisions for self.

I saw that most men are too prideful to get a therapist. And because of pride and denial, they sit and suffer with mental illnesses.

I saw how those that are on a high horse have no idea that their horse has been taken away years ago. And when they figure that out, they’re going to be upset.

And lastly, I learned that once I decided to focus on my goals, love found me. ❤ For me, it happened when I realized society made me believe that there was no other way to be happy, except for when my life revolved around pleasing a man. And it wasn’t true. So I began to do what made me happy. And it did not involve a man. Or marriage. Or kids, the house and a picket white fence. The American dream was smoke and mirrors. It was somebody else’s dream that was put into my mind as if it was my own thoughts.

And the indoctrination started in my childhood. I felt the way I did when I left the church and realized I had been lied to for decades. I was very angry! The church and society had gaslighted me subliminally and directly.

Yet, though it all, life’s ups and downs, twists and turns, I found self awareness. As I was focusing on myself, my goals and anything else, the right man found me. But don’t get it twisted (😂😂) I had every intention on taking girl trips overseas with a maincoon cat !

To learn another language, discovering new cultures, and continuing my financial freedom. To purchase some land and build my dream home from the ground up.

So, to me, I’ve found fulfillment without a man being a part of it. It just so happened that the right one came along and I was in a position to accept him.

And if he disrupts my peace of happiness, he is out of the door. There’s no way I’m going to get this far emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially just to be pulled backwards. It’s not happening and I’m going to choose what’s in MY best interest. Period.

xoxo

A Healthy Parent