The article titled The rise of single lonely men in Psychology Today has taken social media by storm.

The writer of that article stated that men are lonely and depressed. And suggested that men seek a therapist and learn emotional intelligence in order to not be single. The article also stated that over 60% of men were on dating sites. Which suggested that there were more men than women on dating apps, making competition fierce amongst men for a woman.

Men in different states banned together in an attempt to cancel the professional psychologist because it hurt too much to face the truth. They tried to insult him by calling him a panderer, and simp. It made me wonder, why would a man emasculate and disrespect another man whom suggested that they’d become better men to qualify for a relationship. So, I did a little research.

Insert: The psychologist was never canceled by cancel culture. He went on the publish another article titled “A divorce trend that May reshape marriage forever”. Which was followed by a 92 year old women filing for divorce. Do you know how fed up one has to be to file for a divorce at that age???

A few weeks ago, I did a blog titled the dating pool has urine and ammonia in it. And that was because I decided to get back into dating after a several year hiatus to take care of my mental, emotional, spiritual, and financial health. And boy how I was surprised at what I was experiencing!

Between the silent generation and the baby boomers, it was illegal for women to work, open a bank account, purchase a house, and vote. With that, wives had no other choice but to stay in abusive marriages. Regardless of what type of abuse it was. Abolitionists came along and risked it all for the freedoms and rights of women. They were ostracized, victimized, jailed and/or killed. Many people blamed feminism for the destruction of patriarchy. And shouted from the top of the mountain, “You said you don’t need a man”. Which was the furthest from the truth and showed a lack of understanding. Game changers spoke of equality because they realized, and did not feel good about being controlled, suppressed and oppressed. Women wanted to save their lives, salvage what was left of their mental health and financially support their children. And they wanted to get out of abusive marriages.

By the early 1940’s when it was legal for women to file for a divorce, more and more women began to embrace their freedom.

Women wanted to be married. They did not want to be abused while married.

This New law called full faith and credit clause trickled down to generation x. That generation was taught to not depend on a man for anything, earn their own money, become more educated and learn financial literacy. Because that freedom meant that men would not have the ability to control women. And they did not have to have sex with a man that they despised just to survive and support their children. Even the homosexual men felt the same as heterosexual women. The two sects did not like how it felt to be financially suppressed by a man. Then the gaslighting began to increase. But, only by a specific sect of men.

The men whom were ambitious, well rounded, well travelled, and well educated understood that it was the women whom were game changers. And with their healthy level of self confidence and self esteem, they would invest in those women. They understood their return on their investments. So, they encouraged and embraced a woman whom accomplished her goals. They were not jealous nor intimidated by the true power of a female game changer. It is actually a turn on for them. Not her money, but her feminine power.

A man with money is never counting a woman’s money because he does not care about that.

Meanwhile, the underachiever had a different mindset. They blamed other men that were in positions of power, the feminist movement, society, their mother, and the woman that they did not qualify for.

The underachieving hobosexual began to increase in numbers, outnumbering the good men of substance, by far. The hobosexual gaslighted women for a few reasons:

1. He was sexually attracted to the woman that was out of his league and felt entitled to her body

2. He didn’t get picked for sex in high school and now he’s mad

3. He wanted to feel in control to feed his ego so he decided to “conquer women” by deceiving her out of her panties

4. He feels rejected by women and worthless in society. And now it is expressed in unhealthily ways

5. They do not have status amongst their peers or women. And they find it in the mystical “street cred” fairy 🧚🏾‍♀️

Fast forward to still being single and never married in his latter years. With a receding hairline and a beard that doesn’t connect, his target was, and still is the attractive girl from high school that he still has an angst against, decades later. Today any attractive woman is the face of “that girl from high school”.

The gaslighting started, with sayings like, do better, what do you bring to the table, you’re not realistic, women are masculine and not feminine, and check your friend zone for a man. What that really means is:

“I’m the undesirable, underachieving guy and I want you to pick me and grant me access. Don’t pick the man of substance, pick me. He’s not a better man than me”

Gaslighting. He doesn’t even pick himself. If he did, he would do better.

If John Doe told Jane Doe to “Do better” or “Check your friend zone” it was a indirect hint for Jane doe to specifically choose him.

But Jane doe is not physically or sexually attracted to John Doe. I found it interesting how the undesirable, underachieving hobosexual felt entitled to be with an attractive game changing woman.

They said things like “love and attraction grows over time”. It’s a gaslighting tactic. At the same time, the hobosexual did not apply that same hypothesis towards the woman whom were just as undesirable and underachieving as they are. They did not chase those women at all. And to me, it’s smarter and easier to like the one that’ll like you back. And to date in one’s lane.

They do not harass, gaslight and attack unattractive, undesirable, underachieving women. At all.

To shame, break and/or control a game changing woman would feed the hobosexual’s ego. And she wouldn’t be treated any differently because of the grudge he is holding onto about the girl from high school that rejected him. Because of his feelings of inadequacy. Because of his low self esteem. Because of his mommy and daddy issues. Because of the imaginary person he assumes is holding him back from the things he was never going to accomplish to begin with due to his lack of ambition.

I have seen their efforts backfire on them. While the hobosexual has been at a standstill for decades, companies and banks have been investing in women because women are the ones who are taking on political positions and making changes in their neighborhoods.

Generation X began to seek therapy for a plethora of reasons. From depression to PTSD. For themselves and to break generational curses. They paid for classes, courses and seminars to become better women than the previous generation. Meanwhile, the men were being left behind economically and emotionally. Self love, self confidence, and success began to increase and passed down to the millennials. Gen X told them that marriage, relationships and children were not needed to feel like a woman. And that life does not revolve around satisfying and pleasing a man. The millennials took that torch and passed down that information to Gen Y and Gen Z.

From the millennials down to Gen z, they refuse to build, fix or help any man. They understand it’s not their job. And this makes hobosexuals feel more sexually rejected than ever before. Today, they are very angry with all women and have rallied together to torture and assault all women of all ages and ethnicities. Not even the elderly are safe.

They refuse to improve, refuse to seek therapy, they’re demanding access as if they’re entitled to it, they’re childish, unhinged, they’re having temper tantrum’s, crying and sliding down walls!

The reason why they’re constantly talking about the women that they don’t want, is because those are the exact women that they secretly do want.

The reason why he bashes a specific type of woman in the ear of Jane Doe, is because he specifically wants Jane Doe. He wants Jane Doe to have low self esteem, and to be broken emotionally so he can control her into staying WITH HIM. To scare her by saying she’ll be alone in life.

The truth is, it is the men whom are dying alone in nursing homes and their children refuse to visits them! The money and possessions that they feared a woman would “take” ultimately gets awarded to the state. Nobody claims it because they don’t want anything to do with said man even in his death.

A man of substance is a threat to the hobosexual. And if the hobosexual can force or deceive a woman into being in love with him, he knows she’ll never leave and will do anything to keep him. Meanwhile, he is secretly jealous of Jane Doe and resents her. He does not like her. He jumps through all of those hoops to ultimately still be unfulfilled and miserable within himself. Long gone are the days of “building a man”.

Abuse did not work decades ago. And it doesn’t work today. It is also clear that the hobosexual has mental health problems.

The baby boomer women have been watching the changes in era’s and saying, “Don’t come over here with your coffee dates either”. The baby boomer watched the OG’s give their all to a younger woman and got screwed over. Those same G’s decided what they weren’t going to do moving forward and expected whom they deemed as unworthy to accept less than the bare minimum. But he never tells her that because he already knows the consequences. That very information and the red flags 🚩 have been shared across all generations of women.

The Baby Boomer is now saying, “Oh well. You picked her. Next time, do better”. 🎯😂😂😂 women in their seventies are telling men to pick better and rejecting hobosexuals. Even they have opted to be single because there’s happiness in singleness.

The hobosexual is becoming more and more of a danger to women and society at large. They will become more physically violent. They rather lose twice than to face the truth and accept accountability for themselves and improve. Because it hurts their feelings too much. And They can’t take pain of truth.

Women whom are Asian, Filipino, Hispanic, Caucasian, Jamaican, Indian, to African American all have the same complaints. And have decided and accepted that they will be single rich aunty’s. From the pool of men that they have to pick from, they have decided to not pick at all. And they have found fulfillment in numbers, their children, grandchildren, friends, parents, coworkers, careers, spirituality and traveling.

So the undesired was not picked decades ago. And they are not picked in 2022.

Women have listened to men whom complain. And realized that those men never liked women to begin with. Women have realized that those men are jealous of women. And women now views the hobosexual underachiever as a reenactment of The Willie Lynch letter.

Women know that all women, regardless of her ethnicity, age, social status, least attractive to the most attractive, all were and are treated the same way. Abused, controlled, suppressed, oppressed, gaslighted, and disrespected.

Women now know that the hobosexual is emotionally attracted to other men, and tolerate women because they’re not sexually attracted to other men!

And again, they are still not being chosen for access.

Between their mindset and mental health issues, no one feels safe even interacting with them. Women have gone so far as to leaving dating apps, and utilizing the block button.

So when they said, choose better, women did just that by choosing themselves. And then they turned around and said, women’s standards are too high and they need to be realistic. Today women are just that. Realistic.

The more their gaslighting backfires on them, the more the become unhinged.

This is all happening because they feel inadequate and refuse to take accountability for themselves. They want women to “submit” so they can feel superior. To only turn around and abuse women. From the 1940’s to 2022, men have not listened to women nor did their mindset and relationship skills change. Well, at least not the men who wanted to keep patriarchy for the purposes of staying in control. This shows that they love traditionalism, but CANNOT sustain that lifestyle. They never wanted the societal change or to do better. It appears to me that they did it to themselves.

The ambition of a man should be placed in intangible things such as societal dominance, leadership skills, motivation, self accountability, and a healthy level of self esteem. But instead, they’re ambitious about being jealous of attractive women, game changing women, and ambitious about destroying women. While their credit scores remain at 300.

I have learned that when a man is unable to provide, it makes him feel like less than a man. A man finds his worth in his ability to provide. He needs a reason to live and something to live for. He has to have something to lose.

If a man cannot or refuse to find his own worth, that’s a personal problem. Not yours. Not any woman’s problem.

And that truly is the responsibility of that man himself. It is a bad idea to try to help the hobosexual. And he should not be given the same access that a man of substance should get. The hobosexual does not deserve sex.

As more women begin stick to standards and boundaries, they will have 2 choices. Either step up, or come out of the closet and be in relationships with other men.

I’ve come to the conclusion that women are not only game changers, but we are also some pretty powerful beings!

And don’t buy into the shaming of “gold digger”. He’s broke and can’t sustain traditionalism or himself. And he doesn’t want you to realize he’s broke. Men who have money never complain about a woman’s standards. And if that hobosexual himself was incarnated as a woman, he wouldn’t be with a broke man. Period! He would tell you that if he was a woman, he would never come out of his pockets to pay for a single thing.

To the men of substance, do not allow the broke boys to make you feel like you’re one and the same. You are not cut from the same cloth! To refer to you as a panderer or simp is emasculating and disrespectful. They want to hurt your feelings!

You are not dusty like them. And you are a threat to the undesirable dusty guy. Why? Because you don’t have to bamboozle a woman out of a single thing. She will naturally acquiesce to you and grant you access.

Don’t think that women can’t recognize you. That is not true. And please, stay away from spiritual women with tarot cards. Most of them practice witchcraft. Unless that’s your thing too 👁👁

In my conclusion, women are ghosting the dusty hobosexual and embracing the life of a rich aunty. The hobosexual has given society the impression that a financially literate, educated, self sufficient, game changing woman is unworthy while secretly wanting to be in a relationship with those same women. Meanwhile, other cultures, Fortune 500 companies, banks, and high societies embrace the movement of women.

I encourage all women to STOP engaging with those types of men. Especially on social media. If they don’t have your attention, if they can’t trigger you, eventually they’ll have to find something else to focus on.

Astrologically speaking, the natal chart shows more and more men becoming single fathers and obtaining sole and full custody of their children. The tables are turning and they will see, one by one, how it feels and how hard it is to be a single parent. And the damage it causes children when the other parent has chosen to not co-parent. They will witness first hand their children realize that the absent parent never wanted to be a parent to begin with and the trauma that causes a child. And maybe then they will give the single mothers, grace, understanding, and empathy.

The transiting natal chart also shows black women making a mass exodus from Corporate America. Which is good news for those whom desire and qualify for a traditional black woman. The catch 22 to that is that the single father’s will find it difficult to meet a woman and be in a relationship as they realize their priority is putting the kids first.

For those who had sex with a single mother and knew he would never marry her, Astrologically speaking for the single dads, will enter the season of, “As you have sown, so shall you also reap”. Saturn stores up long term karma. That is the karma that returns to sender years later when one has completely forgotten about what they’ve done. With it also being a generational planet, the parents eat the grapes and the bitterness hits the children’s teeth…

If you think relationships and marriages are in shambles now, wait until Pluto enters Aquarius ♒️ in 2023…

Lastly, the passport bros/hobosexual has successfully made it to the FBI’s terrorist list. And the TS community has been fighting against their predatory behaviors and injustices one hobosexual at a time.

Xoxo 💋

A Healthy Parent