For the sake of readers keeping up with this blog, fictitious names will be used. This, is a true story. A written documentary.

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As I awaited my brother (Bob) to be a man and have a sit down conversation with Suzy (the baby mama), of course they never showed up for the set appointed time. I asked myself, what else was hidden? Things were already Jerry Springer worthy. But was there more? If anyone knows a Scorpio, one would know they keep secrets and hold grudges for life. And tend to take offense where none was due.

I knew Suzy, according to the state, lost parental rights to her previous two children.

Court systems are typically in favor of the mother and against the father. One must think, if the state revoked her rights, she must be a crappy parent. And Bob has to see and know all of what happened before they dated each other. Even if she told Bob a partial story, one still has common sense.

So, I decided, since Bob was going to avoid me, to let him know what was on my heart because I knew what was to come. And I knew he was going to try to put his responsibilities off on me. Bob is almost 40yrs old, and is barely responsible for himself. The only reason why he has his own place for the 1st time in his life is because he was forced into it. And Suzy was no better!

She seems to expect a traditional relationship with a modern little boy. Neither of them can figure out what they need to do in order to stand on their own two feet. Any time he leaves the house and turns to the females in his family for anything, tells me she lacks. And her family doesn’t bother with her grown self. Clearly. If the household is short, the question is why when there’s two adults with no kids in the house.

Why does two people NEED to turn to one person for support?

I let Bob know, his secret is exposed. I let him know because he refused to get off of my back when I told him to in 2021. I tried ignoring him, which lasted a few months. You would think after he was told to stand on his own that he would. He knew he was being ignored and that made him mad. I thought his pride would kick in and he would figure it out. Him and his pregnant girlfriend. He/they did not. That told me his self esteem was low. And that his life is at the bottom of the barrel.

If the two of them can’t take care of themselves, nor afford themselves, how was they going to take care of and financially support a baby? Who did he think was going to do it??

Me! That’s who. But what he never factored in was me saying no. He planned on choosing me because I’m the most stable and responsible person he knows. And I live the closest so he could visit his kid at any time but leave me with all of the responsibility for that baby.

And everything about that baby falls on him because Suzy can’t keep her baby, by law.

I told Bob, I knew her backstory that he tried to keep a secret. And told him outright and sternly, he can no longer depend on me for his household. I told him that I and our mother will NOT take custody of that baby. He needs to figure out how to be a man and take responsibility for himself. Well, he was offended and had a temper tantrum. He claimed to have always been abandoned when he had always been taken care of.

So the family decided that we will not do a single thing for him. So when he say he’s abandoned, it’ll be true. He literally is on his own now.

He can’t make anyone feel guilty so he can get what he wants. No one is buying into it anymore. He seem to ignore everything that was previously done for him. And that’s cool. Now, he will experience what won’t be done moving forward. Now, everything will..be..true..

And I know right now he feels like a victim and sound like one. He doesn’t understand why. But the way his natal chart is set up, this time next year he will reap his karma. Then he’ll get it.

Can you imagine, an adult, almost 40 years old having a temper tantrum??? Wild 😂

And lastly, Eric (Another brother) had sex with Suzy. Yup! You read that right!

And Bob is not speaking to Eric for obvious reasons…. Bob chose a woman over his own blood. That tells me, Bob always had his eyes on Suzy. And Bob is now in love with Suzy.

This is some trailer trash Jerry Springer sh**!

So, Bob has made his nephew an uncle cousin.

Bob is having a baby with his sister in law son’s baby mama.

Bob’s sister in law, is his oldest brother’s wife. Wife has an older son. Let’s say his name is Blue.

Oldest brother name: Red

Wife name: Mary Anne

Red and Mary Anne has a son together. Cami. Cami is Bob’s nephew.

Mary Anne has a previous son. Jake. So Mary Anne has two sons. Blue and Cami and brothers.

Blue has two kids with Suzy. And Bob is having a baby with Suzy.

The baby, is Cami’s uncle and cousin at the same damn time….

But wait… there’s more…

Our mother lost custody of her last 3 kids. Which included Bob. She had her parental rights revoked by the state for abusing drugs.

Suzy, had her parental rights revoked by the state. Suzy is a mere mirror of Bob’s mother.

Bob feels that his mother is a bad mother. Well, if the woman he is in love with did the same thing as his mother, then what does that make Suzy?

He should expect the love of his life to do the same thing his mother did to him. And I expect him to resent his baby mama.

You see how God work? He’s so unforgiving towards his mother for her indiscretions. And now that same principle is right under his roof!

He’s in love with a woman who is a mirror of his mother!!!

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

God is good all the time! I always say, “ain’t it funny how the tables turn?”

So what will Bob do? Will he man up and take responsibility for his own baby?

Or will he admit he can’t handle it and it would be best for the baby to give it up for adoption?

xoxo

A Healthy Parent