I have come to the conclusion that I have been surrounded by delusional people.

A girl on social media clearly didn’t have friends in real life, and chose me to be friends with for whatever reason she had.

One of the things gs I learned from her was that there are some people who don’t want friends, some do and make friends easily, while others don’t know how their friends got there.

Needless to say, she literally asked me if I wanted to hurt her.

So… in mind mind I wondered how the hell she arrived at that conclusion?

She picked me, yet fear me hurting her?? What sane person would choose to be friends with someone they assume wants to hurt them??

I flipped the crazy question back on her and asked her if she wanted to hurt me! Not that it was a burning question in my heart.. I flipped it around so she could realize how delusional she was.

I never woke up in the morning and said to myself, hmmm, I’m going to hurt this random stranger from the internet!

* Laughs evilily * like what?! No!

Then I was getting major revelations about my brother who is bipolar. And somehow, in his mind, I want to see his downfall. Like what?!

I washed his clothes, fed him, gave him a place to live, put money in his pockets, stood up for him when he was dead wrong, helped him get his own place, gave him breakfast lunch and dinner for 2 weeks. Gave him an air conditioner, TV, dishes, pots, shower curtains, the list can go on.

And yet his bipolar self believes I want to see his downfall??

Like… Hello??

He dragged my name through the mud with his friends and girlfriends. Making me look like I’m this God awful woman. Meanwhile he never told them all that I did do.

To this day, the people that he is around ooze a body language that tells me he talked about me like a dog to them. And so I question, why does he keep in contact with me when he clearly doesn’t like me?

And he doesn’t like me because I put up boundaries with him which stops him from using me. He can’t handle that.

I’ve learned that people who are users spot easy targets. And once their target catch on to them and put boundaries in place, it makes the predators mad.

People never like a person to change because “The old you” was beneficial for their needs. They are codependent and can’t stand on their own two feet.

I learned to be swift in my decisions, and to project energy that says, BOUNDARIES

I think its unfortunate that there are a lot of people whom aren’t aware of other people’s boundaries, but expect everyone to respect theirs.

I decided to surround myself with people whom have couth about themselves. You’d be hard pressed to find a person of substance and financial stability doing things that make them look bad!

My new affirmation: I will no longer be surrounded by beneath me people. I am surrounded by high vibrating people.

xoxo

A Healthy Parent